Coaching Units

What units are used depend on the individual and their needs

Unit One

Understanding and leveraging the internet

  • Warnings about international and long-distance dating
  • Web usage statistics

Unit Two

Finding your partner 

  • What do you want?
  • The journey of self-discovery.
  • Good and bad in past relationships
  • The effect of parents and their example
  • “Why does this keep happening to me?”
  • Internet dating – part of your learning process

Unit three

Your relationship background

  • Family and past relationships
  • Repeating relationship mistakes
  • Relationships – our earliest examples
  • The influence of other people
  • Past adult relationships
  • The upside of being single
  • Personal growth is always worthwhile

Unit Four

Attraction and relationship loops

  • Past relationships
  • Your past experience can limit your expectations
  • What turns you on? What ‘does it’ for you?
  • Relationship loops: a story of destructive attraction
  • The Bad,  The Good
  • Different responses = Different outcomes
  • Relationship loops: getting off the treadmill
  • Intuition
  • Root causes of being attracted to “bad” boys or girls

Unit Five

How to write a profile      

  • Assess the competition
  • Profile components
  • Written profile
  • Photographs
  • Some cautions regarding selfies
  • Your inner beauty – in photos
  • Post honest, recent photos
  • Keep your profile fresh – be truthful
  • Play to your strengths
  • Keep it interesting
  • Deal breaker choices

Unit Six

Build your dating and phone call confidence

  • Be open to finding ‘the one’
  • Who is right for you?
  • Overcoming fears
  • Step one: know your fears
  • Step two: face your fears – in a safe space
  • Personality types

Unit Seven

Dating websites and personal safety    

  • Dating websites
  • Personal safety
  • Blocking profiles or individuals
  • Express interest
  • Get interest back
  • Warning flags

Unit Eight  

Move from reading profiles to the first date 

  • Shopping for a partner on the net
  • Men and women have different approaches
  • What you need to look for when reading profiles:
  • Guideline steps to follow

Unit Nine

Past the first date: relationships and exit points

  • Maybe this person is not ‘the one’
  • Two spheres touching
  • Your potential new family
  • Dealing with Ex Partners
  • Balance of affection

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