Taking a step back however looking at your relationship history do you repeat the same type of relationship with similar personalities and the same results?
The rush of adrenaline, grasping at forbidden fruit, the excitement of a secret hidden moment. The actual events themselves can become more important than the people involved.
For the individuals caught in the passionate sticky web it is often difficult to see anything other than the blinding erotic passion and excitement. This can be part of the situation, but most often its because the individuals don’t know anything other than their past relationships and how in the future things can be different.